I meant to write about this on Sunday night, but it was late, Monday night, but I was working, Tuesday night, but we were trying to shift sofas, and now it's Wednesday morning. I should be working.
I should be doing a lot of things.
Sometimes at the moment I remember how it was when it was just the two of us, the AC and I, and how much easier it was. Laziness could take me back there, but it's not the right thing for he and I. Then I remember how it was when it was the three of us, Rich, the AC and I, and I know that persevering with this relationship is the right thing to do. To be fair, there's not a lot wrong with the relationship lol! He loves me, I love him, AC loves us both, we all miss Rich, AC and I love Rich, everyone understands how everyone else is feeling.
But washing for 3 and cooking for 3 and so on, well. I haven't had to for 10 months. It's just getting used to something different in that respect. The fact that every other weekend it is 4 not 3 is more difficult, because T-boy is so difficult to feed. Thank the Lord that the AC is not a fussy child. (he'd be a darn sight thinner if he was lol!)
He's coped with his birthday (there was no e-card from the States, but on the other hand there was no nastiness as there has been in previous years, so it's a score draw as far as I'm concerned. AC was sad not to hear from BG, but even he said that Lori probably wouldn't let BG send him a card. Then he asked if BG could read and write enough to send her own card, and I said yes she could, but I don't expect she had her own computer, just as he doesn't either lol!) He's not a happy lad, he misses Rich and he's taking it out on the rest of the world, but he's getting there.
The weekend was lovely - I met J's parents, who are lovely, and who apparently think I am just what he needs. I met J's best friend, who texted him later to tell him I am lovely and it's lovely to see him so happy. I met J's tattooist, and observed the tattooing, and things were interesting. It was a great weekend, that I really enjoyed, AC really enjoyed, T-boy enjoyed bits of it, and it was good.
In other news, we have a new-to-us sofa. It's in the garage because the new patio doors don't open wide enough to let it in. Or the old one out. We are investigating this.........
Report writing season is upon us - also why there has been less in here recently.
I have discovered how to sleep again - also why there has been less in here recently!
However now I have to work, so I will catch you all laters.